One Year Later…

One year ago today Mark, Dexter and I woke up in Burnham, Buckinghamshire, England. We arose early, looking over our little home for the last time. Within the hour, a taxi had arrived to take us (and our five large suitcases containing all our worldly possessions) to Heathrow Airport.

We’d already had several boxes picked up a few days prior, and they would arrive at our new destination within a few months.

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The day before we left, I had made sure to take photos all around town – afraid of forgetting what it all looked like. I took a blurry iphone photo of Dexter, as well, and it is one of the last pictures of him as the little English boy he is.

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Once at the airport, Dexter had fun just running around, looking at airplanes and playing with random passengers. He’d flown several times in the past, despite being barely a year old. And I doubt he knew that it would be a long time before he would fly again.

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We arrived in Florida just as it was getting dark. The first thing we noticed was the heat. By the time we got our bags and picked up our rental car, it was very dark. We drove nearly an hour, looking for our rental house that would serve as our short term home. We spent ages driving around, unable to find the correct road, and when we finally arrived, it was to a development that was less than ideal. But we’d made it, and that was what was important. It was just before midnight.

Over the next few days and weeks, we spent most of our time exploring and looking for a house to buy. We visited the Disney parks and SeaWorld, and we discovered all of the fun places nearby.

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In those first days, we were always trying to find a playground for Dexter. We ended up trespassing on a community playground which was for residents only of a small development down the road from us. Ironically, the playground we found and used for a while is the same one which now belongs to US. It may have taken us nearly a year, but we moved to that same development and now own our home here. Dexter plays on that playground all the time – without trespassing.

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One year ago, he had to crawl across the bridge. Now he runs back and forth like the big boy he is.

We’ve all changed in the last year. We’ve moved three times. We’ve had hair cuts for the boys, while mommy grew her hair out. We got pregnant and had a baby, giving Dexter a little brother. We have had family from both sides come and stay. We’ve bought a house to make a home. We’ve gone swimming in pools and at the beach. We’ve explored and discovered much that our adopted state has to offer. We’ve made friends and created new connections. We’ve fallen in love again and again, with each other and with life.

Me and Dexter a year ago...

Me and Dexter a year ago…

Nothing worked the way we thought it would work. It’s been peaks and troughs all over the place. We’ve had the highest highs and the lowest lows, and in the end, we’ve come through it better people and a better family.

I think it’s safe to say that we are OFFICIALLY proper Floridians. Who’d have thunk it?

 

 

Where a Kid Can Be a Kid

One of the things I always looked forward to about becoming a parent was the ability to FINALLY go to a Chuck E. Cheese. I know it’s ridiculous, but having seen the commercials most of my life, I’d always wondered what they were like! When I was a kid in first grade, the class twins, Jessica and Nicole, had a birthday party at a place called Pistol Pete’s Pizza. We had so much fun watching animatronic animals sing songs to us while we ate pizza and played in the arcade.

Back then, I’d never heard of Chuck E. Cheese, and I don’t even know if it existed. In fact, the first time I saw a commercial, I thought they’d actually ripped OFF Pistol Pete.

Anyway, a few weeks ago, thinking that Dex has finally reached an age where Chuck E. Cheese would be fun, I found our nearest one and took the family out.

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Right from the get go, it was easy to see that this was a family joint. EVERYTHING was done with family fun in mind. In fact, one of the things that impressed me most was that as soon as we entered, we all had to be stamped with matching invisible stamps which show up under a black light. Every child who left with an adult was checked under the black light to be sure they matched. This makes it nearly impossible to kidnap a kid. Daniel was too little to be stamped, but they placed a sticker with the stamp on it on his carseat.

We immediately went up to the counter and ordered our package. For $20, we got a nice large pepperoni pizza, two fountain drinks and $5 worth of tokens to play games. At first, I was afraid that $5 wouldn’t get us very far. But I was shocked that each token was worth 25 cents, and there was NO machine or game that took more than one token!

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Dexter was overwhelmed at all the colors and flashing lights in the main room, and as there were birthday parties going on in the main stage section, we figured the best thing was to grab a booth in the toddler section. It meant Dex had a level of autonomy, able to ride some fun rides without us standing with him every second.

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In fact, once he figured out how the tokens worked, he took great pleasure in putting them in himself. Of course, that only lasted a few seconds, as he wound up stealing all the tokens and feeding them one after another into the Clifford ride.

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Keeping him at the table was a trial, as he was SO excited by all the fun stuff to play with. And the other kids were fun for him to interact with. He didn’t even eat any pizza until Mark took him a slice in his magic school bus. He definitely worked up a thirst, though!

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And while Baby Dan was too young to go on any rides or understand what the heck we were doing, he did have fun cuddling mama while daddy accompanied Dexter on some of the bigger rides.

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In the end, we stayed for almost two hours and had to drag Dex kicking and screaming out of there once our money was spent. We came away with a few photo souvenirs (also only one token!) and a lot of happy memories.

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A Different Kind of Trip

A couple of weeks ago, we went with my friend Amy and her beautiful baby Rowan to Disney’s Animal Kingdom. This wasn’t our first visit, as we’d all gone together back in January. But at that point I was still on bed rest and so had to be pushed around in a very uncomfortable wheelchair. So it was quite exciting for me to be able to walk around freely this time and truly experience that awesomeness of the park.

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We rode the train to Conservation Station, which had a petting zoo and lots of fun for the kids. Unfortunately, Dexter turned out to be utterly TERRIFIED of the goats which kept following him around, and when one of them butted him as he bent down to pick a flower, that was pretty much the end.

Conservation Station

Luckily, ice cream solves all toddler woes, and as we sat in a shady spot to consume our yummy cold treats, I was even able to sneak Dash a bite – his first ice cream. It was lovely, as it reminded me of when we took Dexter to Virginia Water when he was the same age, and we gave him HIS first taste of ice cream. Such a lovely reminder.

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Of course, there were tons of animals and exciting things for Dexter to check out. He LOVES fish, and being able to see under the water was such an excitement for him.

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After a bit of lunch, we caught a cool African band playing some music, and Dex sat on his dad’s shoulders dancing to the rhythms. As Dan was sleeping, I grabbed Rowan and started dancing around with her, which I think she liked. :)

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Mark and I were finding the love, appreciating the quality time together. The photo on the right was taken by Amy at exactly the right moment to capture a really loving moment. The one on the left was a self-portrait I took.

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I love my adventurous fella.

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And as we were surrounded by beautiful plants and waterfalls, it reminded Mark of a photo he took of me and Dexter at the Upwey Wishing Well in Dorset, England. So he had me try and pose in the same way with baby Daniel to recreate the shot.

 

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And with all that greenery, it brought out the loving daddy in Mark, and he and the boys had some really special moments together.

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We even got to see some really cool animals – like the Okapi – a sort zebra and giraffe cross! It was really cool.

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All in all, it was a really lovely day, and we had so much fun together with friends. I love Animal Kingdom and am so happy we live so close to the parks.

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